Accordingly to words of Natalia, in family there began constant conflicts. She asked mother to remove application, convinced that it is not normal. Mother replied that everything that she does – is for the welfare of the daughter. “On top of that the programm malfunctioned, – recalls Natalia. – For example I came home, call to mother. And she doesn’t believe that I am at home because application shows my geo-location at a different place. It could show in the middle of the day that I left my classes. Mother scolded and I told her: “Call to teachers and ask, let them confirm that I didn’t leave”.
This went on for nearly half a year. As Natalia tells, she started feeling, that she is all the way tracked. She felt uncomfortably even at home – it seemed to her that she couldn’t stay on her own nowhere. “I became very nervous, – she recalls. – There appeared uncomfortable sensations in chest. Sometimes I suddenly started feeling strong sense of panic for no particular reason.”
Natalia anymore didn’t went for a walk with friends after school, didn’t speak with friends on the phone. Approximately after half a year mother stopped so militantly watch her daughter’s life – it became obvious that nothing specific happens in it. Gradually she forgot at all about this application and Natalia removed it, not saying anything. But even now, some years after, she still doesn’t like talking on the phone or transmit to friends in messengers her geo-location.
“Now I moved to another city for studding, – says Natalia, – thus mother doesn’t control me anymore, it became useless. But though the story wth application was left behind, it seems to me that relationship with mother will never become precedent. I will never be able to confide to her the same way as before”. By Natalia words, she doesn’t want anymore to be honest with mother. “Why say truth if she anyway doesn’t believe to me but to application which does mistakes? – she disserts.
The programm which was used by mother of Natalia is called “Where are my kids” (in Russian “Gde moi dety” or “Где мои дети”). It is Russian application, which nowdays is used by several dozen of countries. It counts 1,2 millions active users all over the world and the number of downloads in Google play exceeded 1,2 millions of active users all over the world, and the number of downloads in Google Play went beyond 10 millions.
“When I was 12, parents saw at youtube the advertisment “Where are my kids” and decided to set it up, – says Oxana from Moscow. – They said that it is for safety and I agreed. But parents didn’t tell me that through it it is pussible to overhear the talks”.
Oxana says: once she went back from school with her friends. On the way they discussed lessons and teachers. “I rarely use swear words but that time I didn’t lapsed and sweared a couple of times, – Oxana says. – And that time there came message from mother: she alerted that at home she was going to have a serious talk with me”.
It turned out to be that mother overheard the whole talk. ” They took away my mobile, – says Oxana. – Read all correspondence and removed accounts in social networks. Mother for a long time told me that it is bad to swear and took away my smartphone for 5 months”. When the term came to an end and parents returned phone to Oxana, they went on tracking her displacements and overhear talks. Because of that in family there often were quarells. Oxana says that she couldn’t communicate to friends that freely as before. She always thought that she could be overheard. Because of that she started feeling herself outsider at the group of friends. Accordingly to her words, she “lost a contact with friends”, she felt lonely.
One and a half year ago Oxana noticed that she feels herself wierd. She says she started experiencing unconditional anxiety and there appeared intrusive thoughts. During the scheduled examination mental physician said that Oxana has obsessive compulsory disorder, with which man has obsessive thoughts or actions. Most often this disorder appears when one endures strong stress or hard events.
“Where are my kids” – one of the most popular parent application at the market but not far a single one. Nowdays in the world there are nearly 600 applications .
